Posted: 4/10/2008 Post subject: Looking for advise on BJ's
Hey guys new to this and have been fortunate enough to find someone for a LTR and we click well. I love going down and guess I don't do to bad but would sure love to get some pointers to help him and me enjoy it more. So lets hear it.
thanks
Nitro
Communication is important - ask him what he likes, what he likes you to do, what he wants you to do that he doesn't think you'll go for. Get him to verbalize all this - mind-reading is a Lost Art.
And get him to do the same for you - tell him what you want and how you want it.
Good luck! _________________ "Lift ev'ry voice and Sing, 'till Earth and Heaven ring..."
- James Rosamund Johnson
Use your tongue while you've got him in your mouth. Deep throating never fails to excite, regardless of size. Lots of saliva, a glistening cock is arousing. Oh yea, one more thing...short, quick pumping action with your lips over the head...wooo!
I love a hot fist on my cock while I am being sucked. I also like using my fist while I am sucking as well. And, most guys that I have given blowjobs to, will tell you that it feels fricking awesome.
While you are sucking your partner, put a lot of spit into the hand that you might use if you were jerking him off.
As you stoke downward with your fist, add your mouth to the end of your fist and go down on him with mouth and fist at the same time, when you are as far down as you can go, twist your fist slowy in one direction, then bring your mouth and fist back up until your fingertips reach the head of his rod. Then go down on him again a repeat.
Start off slowly, and the speed up. But try to keep the same motion going...down and twist up...down and twist up.
If he acts like he is enjoying that, take your other hand, and very gently stroke his pubes just around the base of his cock, while you are still sucking him. Not a scratching motion, just a gentle slow touch all around the base of his cock. If he wants it faster or slower he will tell you.
A guy once asked me how I liked it, and I asked him to do it to me just like I have told you...And, I will tell you that he did it perfectly and had my load down his throat in no time. He deserved an A+.
If you need practice try doing this with a cucumber, or something that resembles the shape of a hard cock. Just to get the feel of it. Just a warning though, not every guy likes it. Some just want a warm mouth and nothing else.
But, it's worth a try.
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