Me and by boyfriend has been together for about a year and 8 months now, We're still together and love each other every much so, but I have a little issues with sex. See ever since we started to have sex I have never been able to cum to his touch,In other words he has never gotten me off. However I could masturbate and get off myself within 5 minutes, and this isn't like our first time.. its been quite a few times we've done so, I don't know if its me that is the problem or that my boyfriend just sucks at sex. Any one could give me any advice.. or help with my problem.... please?
Posted: 8/17/2008 Post subject: Re: Help? Bad in bed?
Hey hun, if you have no problem bringing yourself off, then it’s obviously not a physical problem, but you both have a problem which you need to work out together, without placing blame on either of you. It might sound obvious, but have you talked to him about what you like, and how you get yourself off? If not you should tell him, and get him to try the same, and if you have already tried this, it may be that you just need to experiment with different positions, or maybe introduce some toys into your lovemaking? Variety is the spice of life so they say, and if what you’re already doing isn’t working for you, then it’s worth trying something different! If all else fails, take the pleasure he gives you and just finish yourself off afterwards, it’s not ideal but at least you get off! As you say you love each other, it’s worth trying to find a solution, because although sex isn’t everything it is a big part of most relationships (I know I couldn’t live without it ). I hope you do manage to sort this out, all the best!
maybe he is making love to you the way he likes it. i know that the way my fuck buddy does it is different to m. mostly coz his cock is bigger. maybe if you guys talked about it you could showhow you like it to be done.... just an idea:) _________________ Your as kinky as a cheap garden hose!!!
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