[Quaitor]

As there doesn't appear to be a forum specifically for the bisexuals amongst us I thought I'd try to start one here. I'm naturally bi and have been for as long as I can remember, certainly for all of my adult life. I'm 63 now so thats quite a while. I know it is very fashionable at the moment to call yourself bi, rather than straight or gay but I think many that do are just straight guys keeping their options open. Personally I reckon to have the best of both worlds. I make no secret of my sexuality, have a wife and a male partner too and although they have not met they know about each other. Anyone else care to add anything?

[tynongstation]

How did your wife react to you having a male partner when you told her?

[Vattic]

I love being bisexual. I know some gays frown on it, believing it's just a straight guy in denial about his true sexuality. But that makes little sense to me. I know how I feel in my own mind, and my tastes are about 60/40 in favour of women. If you put an equally good looking female and male in front of me, odds are I'd go for the female.

But it's nice to share a bed with a guy once in a while. It feels very exciting, very liberating.

[Uccleman]

I'm married and a father and I like having sex with men so I'm bi. Can't help it if some people don't like it. Perhaps if my life had worked out differently I might think of my self as just gay - unfortunately we can't re write the script after the event.
Do I wish I were completely one or the other? Well if I'm fucking my wife I'm happy to be straight, if I'm with my children I'm happy I'm not completely gay. If I'm trying to arrange something with a man and can't manage it because my life gets too complicated, of course I wish I were gay.
If you haven't noticed life is complicated and there are lots of things you can't do, you have to live with it and make the most of what you have.

[axsiter]

I enjoy being Bisexual. I started out being straight and didn't know I was bisexual until I experienced my first encounter with another male. Even then I didn't do anything but allow a guy to suck me off when I was 14 years old. I didn't suck my first cock until I had been sucked off several times. I found that I really enjoyed having the control of someones cock.
When I was 17 I joined the U.S. Army. Upon entering the service I had to curtail any homosexual activity and for the most part did so throughout my 26 year career.
When I retired I again began to pursue my interest in sucking cocks, which I did with gusto! Since I began to suck cock again I have probably sucked over 400 different cocks.
I was married and divorced three times and raised 4 children who all are successfully married with children and grandchildren of their own.
I would love to write the true story of the first time I was sucked off, but due to the rules of this site, I would be unable to do so!

[Quaitor]

[quote="tynongstation"]How did your wife react to you having a male partner when you told her?[/quote

My wife was aware of my sexuality when we met as I have never made a secret of it to her or to anyone. She is not bothered by it so long as I "don't bring anything home" (her words)or fuck anyone else in her bed. My current boyfriend lives about 90 miles away and though my wife has met him and got on ok he is gay and not interested in her in any way.

[Uccleman]

I see no one has made a comment here for a while so I thought I would come back to it and hopefully provoke a bit more discussion. What about guilt?
Many bi guys seem to be married men who discover later either that they are gay or that they can't hide from it anymore, and start to lead a double life. So do you have problems feeling guilty about all that?

[axsiter]

I have never felt any guilt as to my sexual orientation. I am presently living with a woman and have been for 7 years! Far longer than any of my three marriages. I told my present partner, Yes I call her my partner, upfront that I was bisexual. She too is bisexual now but didn't know she was until I planted the seed in her mind and after some prompting she finally tried sex with another woman and found that she loved it Even though I knew I was bisexual during my marriages, guilt never entered my mind.

[Quaitor]

Like Jealousy Guilt is so destructive an emotion that there is no place for it in any relationship I have ever had. I suffer from neither affliction myself and have little toleration for them in others who might in some way affect me and mine.

[gayluv6]

My former wife was quite sexy and open to new and exciting things. One evening we added another male to the mix, under the guise that it was for her pleasure. But I'm sure I enjoyed him more than she did. I've always been turned on by men. I love a man's dick, the way it feels, the way it looks. I love it when he cums etc. But I do like women too.

[bitwixt]

As a bisexual (closeted) myself, I too find it interesting how pure heteros and pure homos both view bisexuals as untrue to either side. The fact is for me, that I can get aroused very easily by both sexes and I am not being "untrue" to one side or the other in the discussion. If some hot thing (male or female) wants to go down on me, who am I to stop them? She-males too...I've never been with one but mmmm would I like that experience. Even a woman with a dildo...now there is sexuality run amock!!! Fact is, my former wife was bi too and we had some great times. My new wife is pure straight and it makes it impossible for her to understand my various "perversions"...so I remain closeted, secretive and yet playful.

[BJ]

Hello I would like to introduce myself my names Kevent yes with the weird spelling and Im 20 yrs old and the 2nd born of a family of 4 and I first found out I was Bi when I had a BJ at the age of 14 with my older brother which I would talk about but its Prohibited. I am completely closed off about it because no one knows besides u guys and my BROTHER. Im still a Virgin because Ive always been 2 nervous 2 go all the way.

[Quaitor]

Quote/ I would talk about but its Prohibited. I am completely closed off about it because no one knows besides u guys and my BROTHER. Im still a Virgin because Ive always been 2 nervous 2 go all the way.

Well you can talk about it on here, no problem. Let it all come out! It will be good to talk about it and about anything else that is bothering you.

[Quaitor]

[Shiki]

Reading about this thread made me felt a lot better.

To be honest, I'm still confused about myself, sexuality wise and such. I know I would have been turned on much easier by a guy as compared to a girl, just I've never really dated a guy before...or rather I haven't really met someone whom I could open myself up enough to him to realize that.

On another thought maybe its also because of family pressure. Being the only son and first child my parents expect me to wells get married and have grandchildren and etc. In some thoughts I'm just being pressured that "okay go find yourself a nice girl and "breed" with her" that kind...

Inadvertently it made me kinda of afraid to get into an actual relationship...
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