I originally posed this question in my LiveJournal, and feel free to answer there. (Link below.) But I'm posting it here as well. This has been something I've thought about a good deal lately, and I'm really more curious than anything.
i have to say im actually pretty conservative when it comes to sex. shocking, i know. i think im just really private about it. most things outside the norm seem gross to me, with the exception of toys. i dont even like watching porn. its a turn off knowing those people dont really love eachother. _________________ "I love it when people give up chocolate for lent...OHHH just like being nailed to a cross...hey God, get over here we gotta open up the Pearly Gates, this bitch is going like 40 days without a Kit Kat Bar!"
i really think my boyfriend and i are just pretty tame when it comes to stuff, weve tried some tabboo things, candle wax, restraint, fisting, toys, public places. but none of it really stuck. _________________ "I love it when people give up chocolate for lent...OHHH just like being nailed to a cross...hey God, get over here we gotta open up the Pearly Gates, this bitch is going like 40 days without a Kit Kat Bar!"
A lot of the taboo things tend to be the kind that either you're drawn to it, or you're just not. For me, when it comes to fisting (for example), there's no denying it: it's a full-fledged fetish. The first time I saw it in a pic, the first vid clip I saw, I was intrigued. The first time I had my hand inside a man? Oh, God...I was so hooked. But, like all fetishes, it's not for everyone. _________________ "There is but one temple in the universe and that is the body of man."
~ Novalis, German Lyric Poet, 1772 - 1801 ~
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Posted: 5/27/2007 Post subject: Out on a limb.....
There is a great risk that you will all think differently (less?) of me for saying this, but the truly taboo thing that intrigues me ... alot.... is incest. Not father-son so much as brother-brother, cousins, etc. In fact, I've written about it a few times, and had to leave those out of my submissions to SP because of their subject content. Your logical question is have I ever acted on it? No, I haven't, though I have a splendid brother and some awfully fine cousins... all of whom are happily straight and, for the most part, married and spawning voraciously. Sometimes at family gatherings, though, it's fun to ponder the possibilities.
I kinda feel like WhyMe other than that, however. I'm pretty tame when it comes to sex. Most of what I've written about is fantasy based, though of course some of it has some reality to it as well, but all the reality tends to be pretty "under the sheets" tame.
It's a good question, and I'm eager to see what others have to say.
Andrew _________________ Andrew
"No other course, no other way, no day but TODAY."
Think less of you? Are you kidding? LOL It's nice to find someone else who's intrigued by it! And I do write about it. Hell, my vampire twins have a cult following. LOL
Think less of you? Are you kidding? LOL It's nice to find someone else who's intrigued by it! And I do write about it. Hell, my vampire twins have a cult following. LOL
I've never given thought to the father/son bit, though ageplay is something I'm interested in (not really taboo, though).
Well, you'll maybe remember that I innocently posted a question some months ago asking what people thought about me lusting after 20somethings. Nobody seemed to mind at the time, and since then several have written saying "neat!"
So I think you're right, ageplay is not really that taboo ... at least not like it used to be.
@ndrew _________________ Andrew
"No other course, no other way, no day but TODAY."
*nods* Things have certainly changed. I want to write such a story, but with everything else on the front burners, I'm not sure when I'd have the time. LOL
Must admit...the older I get, the more I find myself attracted to less-conventional relationships: age differences of more than 10 years, blind/not-blind, interracial, familial, etc. And I'm definitely more attracted to older men, hence why my men seem to get older the more I write. LOL _________________ "There is but one temple in the universe and that is the body of man."
~ Novalis, German Lyric Poet, 1772 - 1801 ~
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well youre right about fisting being a fetish. thats something that was tried a handful...LOL... of times when we were far too drunk to be making good decisions. and ive always regreted it the next morning.
as far as incest goes i cant wrap my mind around that. i can see how some people might, but the few occasions ive started reading a story and realized it was incest i was immediatly replulsed and didnt finish the story. i think its just a gut reaction for me.
but twin vampires sounds pretty hot...
its different when its clearly fantasy subjects like that. same mortal rules dont apply.
the whole brother/brother thing is really touchy for me because i have 2 older foster brothers who were eyeing me when i was a young teen. very not cool.
those are the kinds of things that are sexy unless youve expirenced a negative situation like that. _________________ "I love it when people give up chocolate for lent...OHHH just like being nailed to a cross...hey God, get over here we gotta open up the Pearly Gates, this bitch is going like 40 days without a Kit Kat Bar!"
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Posted: 5/28/2007 Post subject:
mychael_black wrote:
I've never given thought to the father/son bit, though ageplay is something I'm interested in (not really taboo, though).
I'm having to unwrite that out of my third Jules novel. It's really fucking with the plot but Phaze just ain't going to let me get away with it... even if everyone's adult and concenting (and they're all twisted anyway).
*nods at WhyMe* Totally, totally understandable on the incest bit. (And yeah, fisting MUST be done carefully and preferrably when you're sober. LOL)
*chuckles at James* It figures. Think the only place you'll get away with incest (or at least brothers) is Torquere, and that new pub that opened up. (We'll take it at Erotic Dreams, but we're just an ezine.) _________________ "There is but one temple in the universe and that is the body of man."
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Joined: 29 Jul 2006 Posts: 408 Location: Six Feet Under
Posted: 5/29/2007 Post subject:
mychael_black wrote:
*chuckles at James* It figures. Think the only place you'll get away with incest (or at least brothers) is Torquere, and that new pub that opened up. (We'll take it at Erotic Dreams, but we're just an ezine.)
Well, that's what I get for writing Jules as such a sick, twisted fuck that I got myself into this bind. One of those things where you start "channeling" the characters and then you look at it and you go O.O at what you've just written. _________________ ~James
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