[1kindofman]

ok im new to this site but not new...i always came here to read the stories but i just finally joined... but any way i have a question and i need others opinions on it so please comment

my boyfriend and i have been together for almost two months now and i do love him and i am falling in love with him and he says he is the same. but he constantly does things that i dont want him to. i express myself before he does it because he asks what do i think about this and that but if i dont like it he still goes out and do it. is it just one of those "i ask for ur opinion but dont have to take it" deals?or is he really trying to test me to see if i love him or want to break up with him...so much i want to add on but ill wait until i get a few comments

[Clarke]

I think communication is a HUGE component of any relationship. Have you tried asking him about it?

[1kindofman]

asking him what? is he testing me?

[Clarke]

Have you asked him why he's doing these things?

[Uccleman]

Yes, I fully agree with Clarke, you must talk about it; you not understanding him him not understanding you; these are the usual things behind such tensions, talkinf is the way out.

[1kindofman]

ok i took your advice clarke and talked to him... he really didnt want to see where i was coming from at first but gradually he did. we are working on everything and right now things seems to be ok... we are going out on a date sunday just to sit and talk which should be pretty good so we will see

[Clarke]

Excellent news, my friend! Hopefully you'll be able see each other's perspectives and find a middle ground that makes you both happy!

-- Clarke.

[1kindofman]

yes we talked every thing out on our date and things are going way better now. im not stressed anymore and everything. thanks clarke