[Lustfultwink]

Ok so one of the guys I met over the weekend was this really cute college guy. We hung out for a while (I remember because it was early enough in the evening and I was still sober) but he had to leave but we exchanged numbers. I never thought he would call but he did and now he wants to go out. So what's the problem? Well he's bisexual and frankly that's always kinda scared me. What if we get serious and then he changes his mind and wants to start dating women? What if I can't be enough of him. I would hate to have someone cheat on me with a woman ! (No offense to all the lovely ladies on the site)

I know i'm jumping the gun and already thinking relationship but I just wanted some feedback on bisexual guys.

[Philmore]

would it be any better if he were gay and cheated on you with another guy?

i don't think a bi guy is any more or less likely to be unfaithful than any guy at all.

i say, don't let the fear of what 'might' happen prevent you enjoying something that could be really good.

that's all i got...

[mychael_black]

I'm with Philmore, really. Enjoy him, enjoy yourself. And good luck! :D
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[Lustfultwink]

Yeah, you guys are right. I have a bad habit of getting ahead of myself.

Thanks

[mychael_black]

There ya go! Just go out, have fun, and by all means, let yourself enjoy it. :D
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Guys who cheat cheat. Guys who don't cheat don't cheat... doesn't matter what sex they're doing it with. Go, have fun,

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[DirtyLittleSecret]

I can understand your hesitation. You're probably thinking if he's bi then there's just that many more people he can cheat with but hey if you have a healthy relationship there should be no need for him to seek anyone man or woman. Then again you probably want to go on a few dates before you start thinking relationship

[bigboi]

I think you owe it to yourself to date the guy. He might be the best person in this space in time for you to be with.

Sometimes I look back and think; what the hell was I doing?... I mean, I never dreamed I would agree to meet a total stranger from the internet. And then, I only thought, ok, we will just go to a movie, be friends. Even though I wanted to experience sex,I really was not out to just do it with anyone just for the sake of trying it.

I knew I had fallen in love with him, when it bugged the heck out of me to find he was sleeping with a girl the same time he was with me. He was like, what's the big deal? we are just fuck buddies. It bothered me more, cuz she knew all about me, and I had no clue about her.

Now he and I are roommates. Yet I always wonder if he is being honest with himself about what he wants or needs in his life. I only know, whatever he decides, I am happy to have met him and would not give up a moment we have spent together.
Take the chance. You never know you might find love. This is my first time being in love, and it is the best feeling in the world.

[LoveLikeWinter]

I actually started to sexuality shift as a bisexual. I enventually grew away from women, they just didn't please me(no offense ladies, I still love you) and I needed more and I found that in men.

This guy you met...I think I would take it slow, just date for a while. I would ask him question, like, Have you cheated on any others? If you've gotten close enough to him he might tell you about his previous relationships, but you have to wait until the right time.

Then if things go well, go for it.

Just trying to help.
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[DirtyLittleSecret]

Lustful where are you? Hope you haven't been around because you're with your sexy new man