Joined: 08 Jul 2007 Posts: 14 Location: Kansas City, MO
Posted: 7/14/2007 Post subject:
Well, I'm young so I'll say that I couldnt really see myself attracted to guys more than 5 years older than me, but that probably just means I like young guys just the same as you do. Maybe I'll have the same problem you do when I'm 40 yikes! But of course theres nothing wrong with it you've just got to find someone who likes older guys. Helps if you have money haha!
Joined: 24 Jan 2007 Posts: 23 Location: All over the place
Posted: 7/14/2007 Post subject:
47 here with a 37 partner - we've been together for 16 years = he was 21 and I was 31 when we met. We love each other - monogamous our whole time together.
Yeah we've had some bumps in our sexual needs but we've now balanced out.
At my age I want us to find a third who'll be here for my mate when I go. Yes I will go first - but until then if the trailer's rockin' don't come knockin'.
No guarantees on who will go first - my partner always assumed that I would be the first one outta here because men in my family tend to die young - then my partner was gone at age 43 and I am alone. Not in my life plan...
As ANDREWMCO says, "No other day but today..." Andrew is a smart man - listen to him - and make the most of what you are given. _________________ "Lift ev'ry voice and Sing, 'till Earth and Heaven ring..."
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I feel that it does not matter what age you are attracted to {as long as they are of legal age}. I myself tend to be attracted to men between 40 or older because I relate to them better, so be happy with whom you like and go wandering from there
well, my bf and I are in our 30's, and we met an 18 y/o. Were a little concerned that he might just be too young. I mean, I know he's legal, but he still lives at home. Maybe a little immatur? Any opinion?
...I also love to make a younger guy scream in ecstasy.
That's the nice thing about younger guys - they haven't seen my entire repertoire yet, so all my old jokes - and tricks - are new to them. Not many hot young 25-year-old studs know all the uses for a simple pigeon feather picked up off the street... _________________ "Lift ev'ry voice and Sing, 'till Earth and Heaven ring..."
- James Rosamund Johnson
I am a member of another site called silverdaddies dot com My pictures are posted there nude and my face pics to those I choose. There are a lot of younger guys who visit the site. I have had many younger guys, some as young as 18 who came on to me. I have hooked up with a couple of them, Checked their Hiv status, and had a great time.
Posted: 7/26/2008 Post subject: Older with Younger Parnter
I recently moved to South America where wider age differences are common. Originally from the U.S., I was not used to getting so much attention from much younger men.
I am 46 and I recently started dating a wonderful young man studying medicine here in Lima. He is 23 years old. If you asked me 4 or 5 years ago if this would work, I would have laughed at the suggestion. But things are going very well. My young partner is very open minded, serious and dedicated to me. I couldn't ask for more.
Older men are way sexy! I do wonder though if older guys who like younger men have always been that way. Like right now I think older men are hot but when I get older will I still like older men or will I change and like younger guys? Does that make sense?
I can answer that firsthand. I am the older in a younger/older relationship. I had always dated people a few years older than me when I was looking for a relationship. I had had my eyes opened that younger guys were attracted to me during a 'playing around' phase after I broke up with a LTR. I realized that because of the field I'm in and my passionate desire to continue to find new ways to do life that men my age are less interested because most of them have their lives pretty defined for the rest of their life... whereas I have much younger thoughts and younger men like that. [At least that is how I understand it, so far.]
Then during the playing around phase I was surprised when this very special younger man, in college, contacted me and had a different aura about him. He was deep. He saw life beneath the facade... the way I do. We connected in that way. If I did not have a regular meditative practice I might have missed this opportunity for the best relationship, ever. I could not get over the age difference. Yet, when I checked within myself and asked that Higher Knowning the answer was clear: pay attention to him. So, I got over myself.
To answer your question, no. For me this is my first ever younger/older relationship. It was an interesting personal journey to become okay with this... and very much a lesson in trusting my inner guidance. _________________ "You are just a thought away from the change you desire."
LL
Austin
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