[AndrewMCO]

Hi, all.

I'm caught up in something that has been bothering me for a while.

I freely admit I spend a lot of time online. I belong to MySpace, Xpeeps, Qpeeps, Xtube, the whole bit.

I'm also really into younger guys. I'm 42, middle aged by some standards, but a very young-at-hart 42, and most of my good friends are (younger guys) in their 20's. I want to sleep with all of them, of course, but by odd coincidence, they all like girls (which is fine, just not for me).

I get "guffed" all the time because when I'm in public and a beautiful 20-something walks by and I stare.

I'm NOT suggesting a father/son thing, that's intriguing but not really my style.

But is it so wrong that I'd happily date, fuck and ultimately marry someone half my age?

Be honest, I have faith that I'll get some honest answers here.

Thanks,
Andrew
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[mychael_black]

Hell no, it's not wrong. Love is love, sex is sex, pleasure is pleasure. So long as everyone's happy and safe, who cares how many years are between them? (Within reason, obviously--nothing illegal.)

I personally see nothing--absolutely nothing--wrong with liking younger men, or older men if you were young.
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[AndrewMCO]

[mychael_black]

You're very welcome. I'm quite curious to see what the other guys have to say, too. (Hell, I've ogled guys younger than me. Granted, I'm only 30, but still...)
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[James Buchanan]

I've dated guys who were younger, by six or seven years. May-December is fine as long as everyone is happy.
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[AndrewMCO]

I guess I should have explained why I wanted to know, aside from the obvious, that I live in Orlando which is filled with beautiful young, impressionable and open-minded young men! I have some local friends who have taken issue with the fact that I tend to openly admire (and not so openly fantasize) about the youth that crosses my path around here. Nothing to be ashamed of, I don't cross the 18 barrier or anything like that, but when a pretty young guy turns my head, he turns my head. And to my surprise, there are a lot of young guys who are attracted to older guys, for a variety of reasons, and since those who object needed proof, now I have it. I appreciate all of you who wrote back. You ROCK.

Love,
Andrew
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[mychael_black]

Bah. Tell your friends you have an issue with them liking blond guys, or brunets, or...guys with blue eyes...etc. Then sit back and watch the amusing looks. Personally, I'm curious as hell as to what reasoning they have at all. It makes absolutely NO sense, especially if you're not going after guys under 18. Lord. LOL
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[Marquesate]

Poeple objecting to you liking young guys is the same as objecting to me liking pretty much only exclusively Caucasian guys. Heck, what do they wnat us to do, change ourselves for PC correctness reasons or whatever?

You are what and who you are, sod the rest.
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[WillYUM]

nothin wrong with it as long as its legal age.

im 21 and all my crushes are either a lot older or a little younger. i still feel like im in high school sometimes and i have a ton of 17,18,19 year old friends who are all smokin hot. and some older men are just downright handsome.

you like what you like. you shouldnt have to explain it to anyone.
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[creechy]

i agree with the others...absolutely nothing wrong with liking younger guys. If your attracted to younger guys your attracted to younger guys and there isnt anything anyone can do about it.And yeh there are some younger guys who like older guys, i happen to be one of them...although it would be illegal for me to like younger guys but thats not the point.

[bardohio]

[quote="AndrewMCO"]And to my surprise, there are a lot of young guys who are attracted to older guys, for a variety of reasons, and since those who object needed proof, now I have it.

And if you have a surfeit of younger guys there, I am available for hire as a consultant to help you handle the overflow (pun intended)
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[TuDestino]

Older men are way sexy! I do wonder though if older guys who like younger men have always been that way. Like right now I think older men are hot but when I get older will I still like older men or will I change and like younger guys? Does that make sense?

[bardohio]