So for me I would say that I am bi but still trying to find that one experience that would truely let me know how I feel about guys,.
From what you wrote (which was really HOT!) it would seem that you already know plenty about how you feel about being with a guy - it sounds as if the issue is more public than private. By that I mean allowing yourself to show your feelings and inclinations to family, friends, etc., which inhibits you from meeting guys publicly (and if I'm totally off the mark, I apologize in advance - no intention to offend with my armchair analysis...) BardOhio
Joined: 23 Nov 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Jersey City
Posted: 1/20/2007 Post subject: you just know...
It's true, I think that in the end you will realize for yourself that you are either, straight, bi or just gay. Whatever it is, just be proud about who you are because you are special. Realizing that you are who you are will come with time... good luck.
Posted: 1/20/2007 Post subject: Re: you just know...
jcibook wrote:
Whatever it is, just be proud about who you are because you are special. Realizing that you are who you are will come with time... good luck.
I confess that I am old enough to remember when the film "The Boys in the Band" first came out and what a stir it caused...the tag line of that film was "If only we could not hate ourselves so much - if we could just not
hate ourselves quite so very much..."
There is far too much hate already in the world for anyone to hate oneself. In the final 1/4 of my insignificant life, I have learned that if I have learned nothing else, and if that small bit of semi-wisdom can be passed on to take root elsewhere in more fertile soil, if it helps you in your journey, please accept it as such. Keep searching, keep learning, keep loving, keep growing. BardOhio
Well at the age of aroun 14 (I know it was young but I don't care cause I haven't changed) I realised I had feelings for guys as well as girls, more guys though I have only dated girls. I seem to be unable to finds guys in my area.
I suppose you know if you see guys and find yourself checking them out etc etc.
Hope I helped at least a little.
xxx _________________ Forever Yours
What if you see an attractive guy, yet you don't intentionally have sexual thoughts. What does that make you? I guess the question here is, do you need to have sexual thoughts of a man to be consider gay?
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