[squally]

Hey~

I have a question for you guys... How do you know if you're gay?

Or should i rephase this ...how do u discover if your gay?

I am just curious since i did some quiz on my sexuallity.

Personally I am very comfortable in my own skin. I never had a gf nor bf. I am male. I read both gay and str stories. I am not extrememly into either of them. However i do not think im extrememly Macho either. E.g. i am not into cars nor do i extremely like girl on girl action.

Or may i bi? i don't know~ or am i sterile? haha

[Habu]

Well, I'm bi. But I sort of got a clue that I was that when, on top of years of happily fucking women, a man ran his cock up my ass and I enjoyed the experience and told him he could do it again.

[bigboi]

that's a great question. How does a guy know for sure? When is it just curiosity. experimenting...and does a guy have to do something with another guy to know, or does just thinking about it or watching gay sex on the net, mean you are gay?

[mychael_black]

[Philmore]

my answer to this question has always been 'you just know'. but, i guess if you DON'T know, then you should probably experiment a little. You say you've had neither a girlfriend nor a boyfriend, well, try out a couple of each and see which you prefer!

[WichitaSeven]

just call me, i'm sure i could help you figure it out!

[DeathTeller]

[Nate]

I didn't really 'know' until college, but I remember in high school - dating girls and such, I just never felt anything there. The whole hoopla about love and sex and all that stuff...I was always just like, 'what's the big deal?' It never really occured to me that I was gay until I went to college. People just assumed that I was, and then I was like, 'yeah, I guess I really am.' That's not very helpful I know, but I think the old saying, "you just know," has some truth to it. YOu just feel it, and then don't be afraid to act on your feelings, ya know...you just go with your heart...
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[TWriter26]

This IS a good question! When I was around 18 I thought I might be bi or maybe a lesbian. I kept having these really sexual dreams about me being with women, and I would wake up REALLY turned on. (Sorry guys, I know you don't want to picture that)

I briefly thought about experimenting, but I didn't know any gay women -- only men. So, I just put it out of my head. Then a couple of years ago I discovered that I really liked watching lesbian porn. Hmm.... But, that also could just mean that I have voyeuristic tendencies, because I do like to watch. I became really good friends with a girl who is bisexual, and though nothing will ever happen with us because we're friends, I have always felt a little attraction towards her. I don't know if it's out of curiosity or if it's just that I admire her. I don't really think it's that strange for people to find others of the same sex attractive.

I know a lot of people who have struggled with their sexuality, and I don't envy those who are in that situation. Everyone deserves happiness, but it's hard to be happy when you don't know who you are.

Whether or not I'm Bi -- who knows? I like cock -- A LOT, (Something I have in common with the rest of you guys!) and I'm in a committed relationship that I've been in for 7 years. Still... there's always a little part of myself that wonders what it would be like to be with another woman.

I don't know... I think everyone has at least a little "gay" in them -- just some more than others. LOL.

[squally]

Thank you all for your replies

All of your comments have really got me thinking, though some are sure funny.

WichitaSeven "just call me, i'm sure i could help you figure it out! "

Thanks again^^

[WichitaSeven]

oh, uh, funny. yeah. sure. that was a joke. right...

[James Buchanan]

[Morrison]

[DeathTeller]

[WichitaSeven]

oh be quiet! youre just jealous of my youth and exquisitely chiseled abs!